Shorty Blackwell wrote:

> doug <dugster77@earthlink.net> wrote in message news:<3F04C5B3.ED5F0DD5@earthlink.net>...
> > I've read and heard from a number of sources that most
> > first moves are made by women. For example, a woman at
> > a party will make eye contact with an interesting guy and
> > then look away. Then she will make eye contact a second time,
> > sending the message that she is interested. Then, if the guy
> > is interested, he'll approach her. What other ways do you
> > let a guy know you are interested?
> >
> > Women, what do you think of this?:
> >
> > I was at a party that was outside at someone's backyard.
> > This woman already knew I was interested in her. I walked with
> > her away from the party. We both had a couple of beers. I
> > believe she led the way, away from the other party people
> > to around the side of the house to the front of the house.
> > We were alone there, but probably within view of someone,
> > if they tried to see us. We(she) stopped walking and stood side
> > by side. We looked up at the night sky and she began talking in
> > a soothing voice about how beautiful the stars were.
> >
> > QUESTION FOR WOMEN: Was this a non-verbal setup?
> > Was she making the first move?
>
> Yes.

I did NOTsuggest that she come home with me that night.
Is it possible that angered her later?

Nothing happened that night because I felt guilty, and because
people could've seen us there.

That moment seemed very romantic. TIme was standing still.

Three weeks later, she flipped out when I told her(email) I was
in love with her. She was 'livid' and said I had 'disrespected
her marriage.'

Why wasn't she livid that night, when I made that move?  -doug